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How Not To Be Single - Start By Working On Your Relationship With Yourself.

You need to stop looking, then he will turn up, love doesn’t happen if you keep looking for it. Don’t worry, you won’t be single forever.

This was the well-meaning advice I received time and time again during what seemed a lifetime of picking the wrong men and being single.

This advice was normally forcefully offered from women who had bagged themselves a great fella, lived a seemingly perfect life in a perfect house with perfect children. What was their secret? How the hell did they do it?

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Dating

Dating  (gulp…. I’d rather stick needles in my eyes)

This was the response one of my clients had when we spoke about the prospect of dating.

As it’s Halloween this month, I’ve been thinking about the topics that generate the most fear for my coaching clients.

Dating is always in the top 5!

Why is it that dating causes so much fear?..

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Most of us have been there at some stage in our lives, that undeniable pain of a breakup. Even if the decision is yours, it’s never easy, it’s even tougher if you’re not the instigator. It can feel as if your life is literally falling apart, the whole future you had planned, wiped out with the words “I don’t love you anymore”
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Let’s get straight to the facts, if you are single and don’t want to be single then you will not be alone forever, I promise you.

How do I know this? Because I have seen this time and time again if you want something, have a strategy to make it happen and you don’t self-sabotage yourself along the way, then you will find someone. Oh, and maybe I also need to point out, that this isn’t about finding anyone, this isn’t about settling, this is about finding someone special.
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I am passionate in my belief that everyone is good enough, everyone can reach their passion and live a life they love. I think that this is one of the main reasons I love working as a coach so much. I love it when a client who lacks self beliefs shares in detail their ultimate goals and then together we unlock a strategy and make it happen!

My clients come to coaching for a whole host of reasons, some want to find a more rewarding career, some people want to find more effective ways to lead their team, some people want to find a fulfilling relationship and others want to work on their own confidence. At the heart of all of these changes is self belief and that nagging question which propels self doubt like rocket fuel “am I good enough”

Let’s just start by saying yes you are! We all are.
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